Hey everyone, well I have this pretty long question, and would appreciate it if you read it and gave me some advice.
So I’ve always been a relatively shy guy, when it comes to initiating conversation. I’m 18 years old and I feel that I need to find the confidence in myself to start talking to girls that I am interested in.
There is this girl in my Summer School College class and I think she is very beautiful. I’m not trying to sound cocky or anything, but I feel as if she is interested in me, or at least thinks I am cute/attractive.
You know how you get that "feeling" you pick up? Its hard to explain. We constantly see eachother looking at one another during class. Like I would be kind of looking at her and she would then see me looking at her. and I sometimes would turn my head to find her looking at me. We sit across the room for one another, so I can’t strike up a conversation in class because there is always a lecture.
Also, when she would walk by me in class while I am standing up, she would always walk right next to me. like – really really close.
So I pick up this feeling that she is interested in me, and I’m pretty sure she knows I’m interested in her – or at least think she is very pretty.
Maybe I’m making something out of nothing, but I really want to have the opportunity to ask her out. This is the last week of class, and I know that if I don’t at least make an attempt, I would be regretting it for the rest ofthe summer (or who knows how long)
What would be the best way to initiate or strike up a quick conversation? What would be the best thing to do? I was thinking about after class one day walking next to her and asking a quick question – that could lead to a small conversation.
I’m not the best talker in the world, and I’ve never been a ladies man because I’m so shy, but if you guys have any helpful advice or etc. I would truly appreciate it.
Thanks guys and have a good night.